failing the entrance exams for public universities may represent one of the most frustrating experiences for high school students. The family may play a fundamental role for the young man did not see the experience as a simple failure.
Apply for admission to a university means very strong pressure for high school graduates who are prepared in some cases for several months to render a good review and input to form, but not approve can generate anxiety-depressive reactions especially in vulnerable populations such as adolescents.
Milton Hernandez B, Peruvian psychologist applicants considered that in some family pressure, lack of pre-university preparation and lack of confidence in themselves, are responsible for young people to feel intense frustration, sadness and feelings of guilt by knowing disapproving results. "These are reactions not to be identified and treated promptly can lead to behavior self-injury and / or risk, "he said.
What did I do wrong? What else I needed to study: how many points I needed to pass? are some common questions that a person is unable to pass the exam . This affects even those who seem harder and prepared to overcome these setbacks, however, is a blow.
family support. It is clear that in this circumstance, the negative feelings will be there However, the young must know it is not the end of the world, and that parents and families should have a positive attitude and support so that you can overcome these feelings and resume preparation in a better mood.
Proper handling of this situation in the young, will depend on the reactions of parents or family members who are important to the student as uncles, brothers or cousins. "If these people are supporting the youth in their grief, this pain will become less and take this negative experience not as a failure but as a learning experience," says Ana Ysabel Sanchez, a psychologist at the center of Peru Pamer.
no wasted time. It is important that the bachelor have an honest conversation with their parents, in which these will do that if we do not enter university, you must analyze what went wrong to not to repeat the same mistakes in the following applications, and whatever happens, they will still want an important part of the family.
The student should not simply assimilate disapproval as wasted time. Psychologist Paula Meneses says that many times not given the boy the time to learn and know himself. No entry can provide a useful time to improve methods of study, develop emotional competencies or improve a language.
care with the adolescent
not fail can generate anxiety-depressive behavior in young people.
not everything should be negative
is not wasted time, is an experience that improves.
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